As the door clicked behind him, Jim knew this could be the last time he ever heard that familiar click. He couldn’t stop replaying the scene that had unfolded the night before, Tammy screaming at him to get out. Where had it all gone so wrong…weren’t they happy?
Perhaps you can relate to the above story in your own life. Love is the strongest emotion you will ever feel and when a marriage starts to fail it may seem fatal. The good news is there is hope. The following article examines five strategies for saving your marriage you can employ to get your lover back.
1) Be Realistic
2) Be Dependable
3) Be Encouraging
5) Take Action
Now, hold on. I know what you’re thinking…NO KIDDING Jim, but hear me out on this.
If you ever hope to make a go of your fresh start be realistic with each other. A fresh start won’t work if you don’t address the issues that caused the break in the first place. Simply brushing those things under the rug or ignoring them will only worsen things in the long run. Saving your marriage is something that requires work to fix the problems that caused the break.
Next, you need to show your lover how dependable you can be. You may not be “the perfect couple” anymore but showing your spouse you can be there for them during this “off” time will go a long way in saving your marriage and strengthening your future relationship.
Ever wished you had your own personal cheer leading section? Of course, and so has your spouse. One of the things your lover will miss most after your relationship ends is the encouragement you once offered them. If you can cheer your spouse up when they are down, you’ve got a great shot at saving your marriage.
When a relationship ends both sides tend to lay blame at the other’s feet but this won’t do anyone any good. Instead of bickering back and forth try listening to your ex. You’ll be surprised what you can learn when you take the time to open your ears and close your mouth. With a little patience you will quickly be on your way back into your ex’s life. Go ahead and let your ex bounce their problems off you. You don’t have to solve em, you just have to give them a way to vent.
Last but not least, DO SOMETHING! Sitting on the sidelines crying about your lost love won’t get you very far. You wait around thinking about how to get your ex back long enough and someone else will have already stepped up to take your place before you make your move. Problems certainly don’t fix themselves and neither do relationships. Saving your marriage takes love and WORK.
You can rekindle your marriage but you’re not going to do it sitting in that chair feeling sorry for yourself. Get up and take action!
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