So things aren’t going as planned but that doesn’t mean its not worth saving your marriage. But the question is what can you do? If saving your marriage is your top priority there are simple steps you can take to stop a divorce.
Some relationships are too far gone but these tips will work more times than not. After all most marriages start having issues long before they reach the point of no return.
If you’re the only one who feels like its worth saving your marriage try being quiet for a bit. Don’t say anything at all. Don’t complain, don’t beg, just zip it up. Carrying on about how you don’t want to split up is the worst thing to do.
At this stage the whole idea is to make yourself more desirable to your partner and carrying on about saving your marriage is likely to annoy them. Instead focus on making things run as smoothly as possible which should make it more likely your spouse will open up to the idea of staying together.
When you first started dating your spouse I bet you were on your best behavior all the time, right? Everyone behaves that way to win their lover’s heart but somewhere along the lines we tend to get a little too comfortable in our marriages and our actions may start to backslide. All of a sudden wooing turns to complaining and nagging and life can become repetitive. The excitement drains from the marriage.
Its best to recognize this behavior and take action to get back to that “courting” behavior. Most people will be surprised to see that their partners will start to mirror these actions and the butterflies come floating back into the marriage.
Now, when we are comfortable within our relationships we tend to be very bold. If our spouse says or does something we don’t like we have no problem letting it be known. Saving your marriage means that you need to back off just a little bit. I’m not saying you need to be a doormat because that’s not a healthy marriage but sometimes let your spouse have their way. It can add a real spark to your bond. The last thing you want is to give your partner the idea they can’t say or do anything right!
I hope these simple steps help you to begin your journey to saving your marriage. Remember, you don’t have to do these things forever but for now we are in rescue mode. Once the immediate danger of divorce has passed then you can begin to work on a more even marriage.
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